Category Archives: competence

Deadlines + Daily Habits = Diligence

Diligence means to engage in persistent and consistent effort to finish what must be done. 

Rule 1.3 of the Rules of Professional Conduct says, “A lawyer shall act with reasonable diligence and promptness in representing a client.” 

The Power of Deadlines

Being deliberate with our priorities and controlling our workload are paramount in client relations. Yet we often struggle to fulfill these obligations.

Deadlines are often associated with heightened stress, time crunches, and external pressures beyond our control. Instead of motivating us to make steady progress, deadlines often lead us to procrastinate and underestimate how long a project will take. 

But if you know how to use external deadlines and set self-imposed ones to your benefit, you’ll be more effective. They help you to prioritize your work and focus your time, energy and attention. 

In combination with deadlines, you need a well-timed start date and good daily habits to do what’s most important. 

The Power of Daily Habits

A habit is an automatic behavior that starts with a cue and ends with a reward. Habit formation begins with a conscious decision, but the loop reinforces itself and the brain goes into autopilot to execute routine.

Habits require little conscious thought or effort. Keystone habits have the biggest and most positive impact in life.  They may involve restful sleep, regular exercise, and creative hobbies. These master habits make it easier to start other habits.

In his book, Atomic Habits, author James Clear writes that the key to building a new habit or dropping a bad habit is to create a new identity first. Your behaviors reflect your beliefs and worldview. For a habit change to last, you must correct both your belief and behavior.  You can’t just modify one and not the other. 

Learn More at Minnesota CLE 2026 New Lawyer Experience

Deadlines and daily habits are the essence of diligence. They enable you to pick, prioritize, and perform your big tasks and avoid undue delay. 

On Monday, January 26, I am scheduled to co-present at a breakout session on What to Do When You Don’t Know What to Do, at the Minnesota CLE 2026 New Lawyer Experience. I’ll discuss how to use daily habits and deadlines to manage stress and prevent burnout.

The breakout session is part of a day-long CLE, known as “A Survival Guide for Thriving as a New Lawyer.” Registration details are at https://www.minncle.org/seminar/1051352601.

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Dyan Williams is a solo lawyer who practices U.S. immigration law and legal ethics at Dyan Williams Law PLLC. She is also a productivity coach who helps busy professionals and business owners reduce overwhelm, turn their ideas into action, and focus on what matters.  Learn more in her book, The Incrementalist: A Simple Productivity System to Create Big Results in Small Steps, and her YouTube channel and podcast, The Incrementalist – A Productivity Show.

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Why Do You Really Want to Get More Done?

It’s been months since I posted on The Incrementalist YouTube channel or podcast. In 2025, I focused on other areas of life that changed how I view personal productivity – not so much around the how, but more about the why.

To know whether to continue, start or stop any project, you must know the WHY before the HOW.

I’ve reflected on how I can apply what I’ve learned to The Incrementalist, which is still about making big
changes in small steps. You might notice some differences in episodes to come. Or I might just start a new channel. If you’ve been following the show, I hope you will stick around. If you’re new, welcome and stay a while.

And be sure to check out my online course, The Busyness Trap: Escape Overload and Focus on What
Matters
, at https://dyan-williams.thinkific.com/courses/busyness-trap.

Module 2 is now up. It contains 16 minutes of 5 video lessons:

1) What is the Busyness Trap?

2) How Do You Know You’re in the Busyness Trap?

3) The Psychology of Busyness

4) The Culture of Busyness

5) The Business of Busyness

The enrollment fee could go up as more modules are added incrementally. For updates on the course, subscribe to the e-newsletter or to The Incrementalist YouTube channel or podcast.

For a free preview of Module 2, Lesson 2, listen to the podcast or watch the video.

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Dyan Williams is a solo lawyer who practices U.S. immigration law and legal ethics at Dyan Williams Law PLLC. She is also a productivity coach who helps busy professionals and business owners reduce overwhelm, turn their ideas into action, and focus on what matters. She is the author of The Incrementalist: A Simple Productivity System to Create Big Results in Small Steps.

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The Busyness Trap, Module 1 is Now Available: Enroll Early!

Enroll early in the Busyness Trap: Escape Overload and Focus on What Matters: https://dyan-williams.thinkific.com/courses/busyness-trap.

For an early enrollment fee of $29, you will get unlimited access to Module 1 plus all new modules that are added incrementally.

The price of this course will increase as more modules are published. When all the modules are made available, the enrollment fee could be from $99 to $199.

A year ago, I started outlining the modules and writing the lessons for this self-paced online course. It builds on the 5 productivity principles described in my book, The Incrementalist: A Simple Productivity System to Create Big Results in Small Steps

By taking this course, you will learn why you fall into the busyness trap, what keeps you stuck there, and how to get out and stay out.

Module 1 contains 12 minutes of 5 video lessons: 

1) Welcome (or what to expect in this course)
2) Productivity Principles to Beat Busyness
3) Fast Changes and Tech Overuse Make You Busier
4) Small Steps to Giant Leaps
5) No Quick Fixes or One-Size-Fits-All Solutions

Lessons may be updated or added to provide more value and to address common questions and constructive feedback. For updates on the course, subscribe to the enewsletter or to The Incrementalist YouTube channel or podcast.

To listen to the podcast, click here.
To watch the video, click here

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Dyan Williams is a solo lawyer who practices U.S. immigration law and legal ethics at Dyan Williams Law PLLC. She is also a productivity coach who helps busy professionals and business owners reduce overwhelm, turn their ideas into action, and focus on what matters. Learn more in her book, The Incrementalist: A Simple Productivity System to Create Big Results in Small Steps, and her YouTube channel and podcast, The Incrementalist – A Productivity Show.

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Why the Law of Attraction is Unproductive and (Even) Harmful

The Law of Attraction says your thoughts and feelings manifest your reality; they contain vibrations and frequencies that create tangible outcomes or visible results. It’s pseudoscience that makes vague references to neurology, metaphysics and quantum mechanics.

The Law of Attraction is a New Thought or New Age concept. The idea is that whatever you desire, the universe will provide. The 3 steps of manifestation are to ask, belief and receive. There is no action step.

When you’re in the realm of possibility, action typically beats inaction. You could break down the challenge to make the action steps easier, struggle less, and apply the effort that you can reasonably manage. The incrementalist approach is more doable than trying to harness your mind power to manifest desired outcomes.

In episode 71 of The Incrementalist, you will learn 7 reasons why the Law of Attraction is unproductive and even harmful.

To read the transcript of this episode, go here.

To listen to the podcast, click here.

Watch the video our YouTube channel, The Incrementalist – A Productivity Show. And subscribe to the show to keep making big changes in small steps.

P.S. I’m making an online course titled The Busyness Trap: Escape Overload and Focus on What Matters. To get updates on the course launch and registration process, subscribe to my e-newsletter or The Incrementalist YouTube channel or podcast.

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Dyan Williams is a productivity coach who helps busy professionals and business owners reduce overwhelm, turn their ideas into action, and focus on what matters. She is also a solo lawyer who practices U.S. immigration law and legal ethics at Dyan Williams Law PLLC. She is the author of The Incrementalist: A Simple Productivity System to Create Big Results in Small Steps.

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Stop Being Busy. Start Resting.

When you’re busy all the time, it’s hard to pause, slow down and rest. But the busier you are, the more you need to recover and recharge. Wanting to rest is not a sign of weakness or laziness. It’s not just a reward for hard work or a job well done.

Rest helps you avoid exhaustion, overwhelm and burnout. Although it helps you to do more and make more, it’s vital for its own sake. When you’re well rested, you make better choices and prioritize what matters. You do fewer things in the short term, but accomplish more in the long run.   

Visible activity is often mistaken for real productivity. You could be going fast and spinning your wheels, but not making real progress or heading in the right direction. When you’re too tired and stressed, you can’t produce output and generate ideas that are truly valuable and useful.

In episode 70 of The Incrementalist, you will learn:

1) What is rest

2) The benefits of passive rest, like Niksen (the Dutch term for doing nothing)

3) The advantages of active rest, like tactile hobbies or meditative activities

4) Rest can be mentally restorative, physically recharging, or spiritually renewing, or a combination of all three

5) The two main branches of the nervous system: Sympathetic and Parasympathetic

6) Polyvagal Theory and the importance of the vagus nerve and Ventral Vagal State

7) The four types of responses to stress: Fight, Flight, Freeze and Fawn

8) Rest allows you to use your nervous system more effectively and activate the Ventral Vagal State to destress

9) Why rest is key to creating big results in small steps

I’m making an online course currently titled The Busyness Trap: How to Escape Overload and Focus on What Matters. To get updates on the course launch and registration process, subscribe to my e-newsletter or The Incrementalist YouTube channel or podcast.

To read the transcript of this episode, go here.

To listen to the podcast, click here.

Watch the video our YouTube channel, The Incrementalist – A Productivity Show. And subscribe to the show to keep making big changes in small steps.

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Dyan Williams is a solo lawyer who practices U.S. immigration law and legal ethics at Dyan Williams Law PLLC. She is also a productivity coach who helps busy professionals and business owners reduce overwhelm, turn their ideas into action, and focus on what matters. She is the author of The Incrementalist: A Simple Productivity System to Create Big Results in Small Steps.

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